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The trouble of finding and identifying who to marry is something beyond every human capacity. if you have by any means perceived this process to be kind to the human mind, free of anxiety and fear of the unknown, consider yourself a god, but don't expect anybody to worship you, you're a god and not the God.

Flipping through the pages of my mind, I kept on thinking and praying contemplatively. My focus is to get someone a bit crazy, crazy in the sense that her love for the things that matter in life would transcend the four rivers that flow out of Eden's garden. But this kind, where can one find?

The king, Solomon had complicated this matter when he reported as was given him by the Greatest Deity saying, "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the LORD". Proverbs 18:22

This became law, that man must find, and by finding, he is looking out for a wife, meaning that the said lady must become a wife before she is found. Not being ready for the Man or groom to come to find you as a lady equals the foolishness of the five foolish virgins in Matthew 25:1-12.

As a lady, you must be readily available always, wearing your qualities and virtues to be found. You might be asking, "is marriage a job that will put food on my table? what is marriage, if not to be with a man and birth children?
Beloved, Marriage is a game mirroring Jesus' affair with the church, and this game is given to men to play on the earth to fulfill God's agenda of the creation mandate.

You, being against it is not only evil but a fool and anti-God.

You, not being prepared for a man to find you as a wife as at when due is an unrighteousness that hunts years later.

Don't be fooled, every woman needs a man, you were created as his half and companion. so stay ready to be found.

Let's X-ray this issue of finding a wife in the mirror of Jesus' mission to the earth.

Jesus Christ came according to the prophets to deliver and save.
But this was what He said of himself
" When Jesus heard [it], he saith unto them, They that are whole do not need the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance" Mark 2:17.

Jesus' approach to finding his pride, the church was born out of the thrust that he is a bride's Groom. He understood the fact that he was never sent to marry a perfect bride because if there was any perfect bride on the earth, His mission would have been useless as a bride's Groom.

A bride's Groom according to Jesus Christ in Mark 2:17, is saddled with the responsibility of Grooming the imperfect bride into perfection.

Beloved, Jesus our Christ launched out, finding this imperfect bride to help her to perfection. The question is, Did He find any?

Well, the evidence is crystal, you and I would never be called Christians if Jesus' approach to finding his bride didn't work.

We are called Christians because He found His bride.

Is his approach worthy to be adopted?
I strongly believe it is.

Consider it this way, the same way you come into Christ, willing to surrender everything and  take up the principles of God, the same way you allow God's doctrines to come into you and overcome you,
is the same way you get a bride.

The key thing there is, she must be willing to act like Jesus' bride,
"Be teachable"
her ability to be teachable qualifies her for your love, My brother.

Jesus Christ succeeded even with you because you're willing to learn and compromise your ways for his holy ways.

If she shows these attributes of Jesus'bride, Beloved you don get a wife (Beloved, you have found a wife)

Being teachable as a lady is a very hard virtue.  It is an ability that allows you to constantly compromise your interest for his interest, thereby making him happy even as he does the same to you.

If you can do this as a lady, Sweet sister, you don get a husband (you have a groom already).

There is always something that connects us to the final stop, Salvation, are you born again?
if you're not, going into marriage without Jesus Christ in your life is tantamount to crashing into a dish of many crises.

who do you run to when an issue erupts?
Beloved, I advise you run to Jesus because if you go to men, they will complicate the issue.

Simple open your heart and pray this prayer with me, Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner in need of your help, I believe that you died on the cross for my redemption from sin, please come into my life now and be my Lord and Savior, help me to live fully for you from today forward and backward never in Jesus Holy name, amen.

Congratulations beloved, and welcome to God's own family.
Please don't stop here, pray and locate a Bible-believing Church near you, and get committed immediately so that you will be planted and get teachings on how to grow in God's love and instruction.

Now that you are Saved, let's marry.

Thank you. God bless and keep you.

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