Severally, My uncle has accused me of being anti-family due to a few steps i have taken towards growth and development.

He wasn't wrong, a mentor, after listening to my part of the story said to me, "go close to your family, not because of growth and help for development but for the insult and disbelief in your abilities"

I think this advise was cool, but i still can't lunch that path. Please advise otherwise if you can.

My name is Mary, a graduate of Soiology. I barely know my parents, but I have a few family people who care and made sure I had it all cool through my journey to adulthood.

Family is key, but not in my case, despite the fact that many of my relatives had loved on me, there was still this vacuum within that craved for a belonging, but guess what, i could'nt get it, not with my family.

No matter how hard I tried, even with my equals in the extended, they play me off with a "never going to amount" attitude.

Bro Paul, i am so sorry, I ought not to disclose this to you, but I think you're more than a friend. I had issues and had to pass through an aunts place, despite the fact that she knew i was not having much financially and even had to go to her place because of the same, she made my stay a weeping night indirectly.

After some weeks with them, I noticed that her maid became hostile and aggressive towards my freedom in the house. After a few questioning, i uncovered that my aunt had intimated the lady to restrict my flow because she won't be able to turn against me herself. This was not shocking, neither was it a surprise, it was an addendum to a handful of similar experiences.

I seat in the position I am today because i decided to take the insults from family as words of advise from motivational Jesus Christ.

Hmmmm.
Beloved, the little narrative above is a part of a counseling session with a CEO I just met.

Truly, if you want to grow and emerge, you must come out of your fathers House.

This is scriptural, its only a few cases that you will find or hear that he or she was made by a family.
In order to get you agitated, note this, family may not support your rising, they may even downplay your becoming, but when you finally emerge, they will come.

Please dont ask "come for what exactly?" Because i sincerely dont know, but they will come.
And if you chose and decide to treat them badly, you will be acting against Gods word ( But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 1 Timothy 5:8)

What then is the way, the truth and life?
Beloved, get out of thy fathers house
Gather all their affronts, disbelief and ridicule into your bag of motivational experiences and run far away from them. Keep in touch, always keep them abreast on your existence, let them know you're still alive and kicking. Pray like the psalmist prayed (Make a show of how much you love me so the bullies who hate me will stand there slack-jawed, As you, GOD, gently and powerfully put me back on my feet. Psalms 86:17)

I promise you one thing, as long as God is your dirctor, you will return home with an Oscar one day to their amaizement.

How do I know this?
Genesis chapter fourteen recorded a story of a man named Abraham who left his fathers house at a call and went on to become a nation whose identity is God almighty on the earth today.

Beloved, i understand the fact that they don't care, none of them seems to believe in what and who you are, what you're getting from them now is insult from one meal to a sleeping position and all.

Beloved, be at peace with your spirit. Focus and know this, "you will emerge", David's parents and brothers never believed in him, you are not the first, Jesus Christ had it got from guys in his hometown too.
Don't see them as evil, they are only tools for your training, even satan was confessed to be a training tool that kept Apostle Paul in check. Just make sure you move out like Father Abraham, let God call you out to a place.

There can only be one little issue,
Calm down, don't panic, that's why i referred to it as "little issue", though its very important and the main key to becoming.

Beloved, in order to be properly guided through your journey of emergence, you must get yoked with a personality.
A supernatural being that will help guide you.

Beloved, you must give your life to Jesus Christ and get committed to know him and have Him speak constantly to you, instructing you on what to do.

Thank God for you, if you're a born again child of God.
But if youre not yet, beloved, pray this prayer after me, "Lord Jesus, I am a Sinner in need of your help, I believe that you died on the cross for my redemption from sin, please come into my life now and be my Lord and savior, help me to live fully for you from today forward and backward never in Jesus Holy name, amen.

Congratulations beloved, welcome to God's own family.
Please don't stop here, pray and locate a Bible believing Church near you and get committed immediately so that you will be planted and get teachings on how to grow in God's love and instruction.

Thank you. God bless and keep you.

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