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The journey to marriage according to the wise is full of compromise. This saying however can be true if the meaning of the word "compromise" is defined in context.

Being a lover of pictures, I love to paint their meaning rather than create more confusion with grammatical terms.

A compromise was an action I detest due to my knitted infusion with Christ. The journey into marriage brought me to a point that could be described by a dying man as 'worst'.

What was my offense?
Wanting to have someone that I could turn to when I am down emotionally and someone that can trust me to help her out of the same and other trash that life may throw at us.

I returned from a very busy day on this terrific evening to nagging at home. My mum would not let me rest, all she wants to see in the house running and causing trouble is a baby boy or the beautiful daughter that is traceable to my loins.

Couldn't help it, I then opted to let her alone in the house and go past the night at the one that was in view's place.

All things being equal. I have lived my life expecting no big surprise and no small shorts either. Life happens, that was my slogan.

Before now, I would call when I am down to hear her say a few words that could revive my mood, but all I got was a boost into a deeper depression.

I wore my contemplations about her like a thinking cap, always on my mind. Going back was never an option because more than sacrifices were investigated in the form of compromise.

My mum would call her Jesus' chosen one. She was preferred and treated like the one who has become already.

This faithful night opened my eyes to the fact that not all that are chosen were called. "Jesus' Chosen" was on the bed with her older brother.

What a demon-possessed generation.
What could be more demonic than this that my eyes have seen?

With the way she was fused with church activities and how my mum would look at her and call her Jesus' chosen, I thought she had Jesus Christ in her.

I was Broken beyond repair. What is life? if not to eat, drink and enjoy.

I bottled my disappointment and took off to a motel where I met a pretty lady after taking a quantifiable volume of alcohol. I shared my story with her and how I just broke up with Jesus, and she smiled and said to me "I am a prostitute today not because I want to be, many times I would run to church and answer the alter call, but I noticed that there is a spirit that keeps pulling me back into this, I am not doing this for money, but I pray I get delivered someday"

This lady opened me to a whole new realm of forces that contend with us. I then thought it wise to swallow the shame and help Jesus' chosen out of her afflictions instead of abandoning her for another man to come to suffer the same as I did.

Beloved.
Many breakups in relationships right from the beginning of time are traceable to these demonic forces. The agenda of the devil is to see God's plan for mankind destroyed and man suffer.

If you don't know this secrete and build your relationship on a faulty foundation and not Christ, the devil will come in and do some damage to it.

Apostle speaking in the book of Ephesians 6:12 says "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high [places]".

Beloved, know yourself and know what you're up against, that way, you will fight and win with Jesus Christ on your side.

Yours could be masturbation, lying, cheating, slandering, and the like, beloved the good news is that there is salvation for all that decide to Embrace Jesus Christ.

Turn this moment and pray this prayer with me, "Father, I am a sinner in need of your help, please have mercy on me, deliver me from (call what you're plagued with) and help me to stand for and with you from today on and backward never in Jesus Holy name, amen.

Congratulations beloved, I assure you that Jesus Christ heard your cry, but know that it will be incomplete if you don't locate a Bible-believing Church near you and get committed so you can be thought the deep things in God.

God bless and keep you